The effort to redefine marriage clearly haven't stopped with gay "marriage" efforts.  In fact, it seems to only encourage others who want to have their sexual unions endorsed by society.  It was noted in the debate over marriage that polygamous relationships was the next thing coming down the road.  Well, it looks like polyamory relationships maybe the more likely candidate in America.
Here's a CNN story on polyamory relationships which are groups of individuals of both sexes having sexual relationships with one another.
Revelers in the rainbow-washed crowd smiled and cheered this month as the little blond girl in the parade float pageant-waved to the B-52's "Love Shack."
Next to the float, the 
girl's father, Billy Holder, handed out fliers to the Atlanta Pride 
Parade crowd. His wife, Melissa, carried a banner along with Jeremy 
Mullins, the couple's partner.
"Polyamory: Having simultaneous close emotional relationships with two or more other individuals," 
read their purple-lettered banner, embellished with an infinity heart.
The "awws" and waves from the crowd gave way to some puzzled looks and snickers.
"What's poly?" a woman asked, looking toward a handwritten sign on the float that read "
Atlanta Poly Paradise."
"Multiple partners?" the man next to her guessed.
Sort of. As the concept 
of open relationships rises in pop culture and political debates, some 
polyamorous families like the Holders and Mullins see an opportunity to 
go public and fight stereotypes that polyamory is just swinging, 
cheating or kinky sex.
It's not just a fling or a
 phase for them. It's an identity. They want to show that polyamory can 
be a viable alternative to monogamy, even for middle-class, suburban 
families with children, jobs and house notes.
Another example of trying to satisfy adult desires, whatever they may be, rather than lining our lives up with the created order, God's design for intimate relationships. 
"We're not trying to say 
that monogamy is bad," said Billy Holder, a 36-year-old carpenter who 
works at a university in Atlanta. "We're trying to promote the fact that
 everyone has a right to develop a relationship structure that works for
 them."
For the Holder-Mullins 
triad, polyamory is three adults living in the same home about 20 miles 
south of Atlanta. They share bills, housework and childcare for their 
9-year-old daughter. They work at the same place, sharing carpooling 
duties so someone can see their daughter off to school each day. 
Surrounded at the parade
 by drag queens from El Gato Negro nightclub, singers from a gospel 
choir and supporters of the Libertarian Party of Georgia, Billy Holder 
didn't stand out in his jeans, T-shirt and wide-brimmed, sun-shielding 
hat. That's sort of the point, he said: to demonstrate that 
polyamorists, or polys, are just like anybody else.
But, he's quick to add, "It takes a lot of work and it's not for everybody."
It's a common refrain 
from long-practicing polys. Jealousy among partners is one thing, but 
they also face or fear disapproval from neighbors, relatives and 
coworkers. The Holders and Mullins dealt with rejection from parents and
 one of Melissa Holder's sons when they revealed their relationship. 
They've also been the subject of a child welfare probe that ended in no 
charges being laid.
"We've been through it all," said 35-year-old Jeremy Mullins, a computer programmer. 
The latest form of coming out. 
That's why they're 
coming out, he said -- to change the status quo. And yet, their 
willingness to speak with CNN over the past 18 months came with 
conditions, such as the request to not name their employers.
Marching in the parade 
for the fourth year is just one way they're trying to promote public 
acceptance of polyamory. Someday, they want to challenge laws that 
criminalize adultery and cohabitation, Mullins said.
"We want to promote the 
idea that any relationship is valid as long as it is a choice made by 
consenting adults," he said. "In this regard, and as in most things, 
promoting public acceptance is the first step."
It's an uphill battle. 
Many traditional marriage counselors and relationship therapists 
discourage non-monogamy, and in the absence of more research on the 
long-term effects of polyamory, modern science and academia hasn't 
reached a consensus on whether it's a healthy relationship structure. 
Even among a crowd as 
colorful as the Pride Parade, the giggles and questions suggest 
polyamory is still a way of life that's on the fringes.
How they're defining polyamory. 
According to the flier Billy Holder handed out at the Pride Parade, which borrowed from 
The Polyamory Society and 
More than Two, there are many ways to define polyamory.
"Polyamory is the 
nonpossessive, honest, responsible and ethical philosophy and practice 
of loving multiple people simultaneously," it said.
"Polyamory is not a swing club or group."
"Polyamory is not about recreational or promiscuous sex."
Otherwise, there are no 
universal rules for "how it works," one of the most common question 
polys say they hear, Holder said. The most common dynamic tends to start
 with a couple, married or unmarried, who might identify as straight, 
gay or bisexual. Guidelines are set within each relationship -- ideally,
 a negotiated framework of communication based on trust and honesty, he 
said.
For each of the 12 
people walking with the Holders-Mullins triad in the Atlanta Pride 
Parade, polyamory works differently. For example, Mark, a tall, 
bespectacled computer programmer, has been happily married to his wife, 
an electrical engineer, for more than a decade. They live alone and have
 no children, but they've been involved with two other couples with 
children for the past six years. Mark and his wife spend time with the 
adults and their children doing family-friendly activities but the 
adults also go out on dates, cuddle and more.
It's not cheating or 
swinging, he said, because everyone knows about other partners, whom 
Mark calls his girlfriends. There is a level of intimacy and emotional 
attachment that makes them more than friends with benefits or one-night 
stands, he said.
"I'm more involved in 
their lives and more aware of their inner thoughts or aspirations; I'm 
more involved in their long-term happiness," said Mark, who asked not to
 use his last name out of concern that he and his wife might face 
backlash from employers.
"It's like having a regular, monogamous relationship but having more than one of them."
It's unclear how many 
people identify as polyamorous because, like Mark and his wife, the 
majority aren't open about their relationships. Because of the varied 
forms these non-monogamous relationships take, it's difficult even to 
know who to include in such a count, demographer Gary Gates said.
"It's not completely 
clear how you would measure this group, since I'm not sure there's a 
common terminology around how individuals in polyamorous families 
identify their relationships to each other and their children," said 
Gates, a demographer at the 
Williams Institute, which conducts research and policy analysis regarding legal issues that affect LGBT populations.
Many poly people stay 
closeted out of fear of discrimination, social alienation or because 
they simply prefer privacy, sociologist Elisabeth Sheff writes in her 
forthcoming book "
The Polyamorists Next Door."
Sheff based her findings on 15 years of research that began with a
 partner's request to explore alternatives to monogamy. She continued 
her research even after her relationship ended, and does not consider 
herself a polyamorist. But her research led her to believe that 
polyamory is a "legitimate relationship style that can be tremendously 
rewarding for adults and provide excellent nurturing for children."
Making it work, she 
acknowledges, is "time-consuming, and potentially fraught with emotional
 booby traps," she writes. It can be rewarding for some "and a complete 
disaster for others."
While some scientists say 
monogamy is probably not humans' natural state,
 and is instead likely a social construct, many therapists say learning 
to control sexual impulses toward multiple people is a hallmark of 
emotional maturity.
 Observers are already raising questions about it. 
More often than not, 
non-monogamy leads to the demise of relationships, said Karen Ruskin, a 
Boston-area psychotherapist with more than two decades of experience in 
couples counseling. Instead of focusing on the primary relationship, 
partners are turning to others for fulfillment.
"Even if non-monogamy is consensual, it's still a distraction from dealing with each other," said Ruskin, author of "
Dr. Karen's Marriage Manual."
"It all goes back to 
choice. Non-monogamy is choosing to be with someone else instead of 
being attentive to your spouse when the relationship is troubled."
Couples can establish 
rules and parameters to limit jealousy, she said. But in her experience 
working with couples, "those rules never end up working out for 
everyone," she said.
"It has shown to be 
damaging and destructive to a person as an individual, to the couple's 
relationship and the family unit as a whole."
Indeed, while many 
associate polyamory with swingers or kinksters, "there are much easier 
ways to get laid," said Anita Wagner Illig, founder of online polyamory 
resource, 
Practical Polyamory.
Wagner Illig, a 
self-appointed "poly educator" who gives talks at adult conventions 
about polyamory, began to identify as poly after her second divorce in 
the late 1990s. She decided there must be a better way than cheating to 
have multiple relationships.
They want their cake and being able to eat it too.  Have multiple relationships without "cheating".  I believe time will quickly point out this latest effort to redefine family and marriage won't work either.  The result will be more pain and broken lives, especially among the most vulnerable among us - children.