I came across this article recently. A bit dated, from December, but it posits a possible link between use of pornography and support for same sex "marriage". It sounds like a stretch initially but at a closer look it makes some sense. The article is
written by researcher Mark Regnerus.
Recently I read the Harvard Journal of Law & Public Policy article by Sherif Girgis, Robert P. George, and Ryan T. Anderson, titled “What Is Marriage?” (The article, I am told, has been extensively revised and expanded, and has just been released as a book.) Their explanation of marriage’s distinctiveness as a one man-one woman union includes the following claim:
Marriage has its characteristic structure
largely because of its orientation to procreation; it involves
developing and sharing one’s body and whole self in the way best suited
for honorable parenthood—among other things, permanently and
exclusively.
Given that I study the sexual and relationship lives of emerging
adults, I couldn’t help but note the contrast between this description
of marital sexuality and how sex is portrayed in modern pornography.
Indeed, the latter redirects sex—by graphic depiction of it—away from
any sense of it as a baby-making activity. Porn also undermines the
concept that in the act of sexual intercourse, we share our “body and
whole self … permanently and exclusively.” On the contrary, it
reinforces the idea that people can share their bodies but not their
inmost selves, and that they can do so temporarily and (definitely) not
exclusively without harm.
Here's the data backing up his idea.
Data from the New Family Structures Study reveal
that when young adult Americans (ages 23-39) are asked about their
level of agreement with the statement “It should be legal for gays and
lesbians to marry in America,” the gender difference emerges, just as
expected: 42 percent of men agreed or strongly agreed, compared with 47
percent of women of the same age. More men than women disagreed or
strongly disagreed (37 versus 30 percent), while comparable levels
(21-23 percent) said they were “unsure.”
But of the men who view pornographic material “every day or almost
every day,” 54 percent “strongly agreed” that gay and lesbian marriage
should be legal, compared with around 13 percent of those whose porn-use
patterns were either monthly or less often than that. Statistical tests
confirmed that porn use is a (very) significant predictor of men’s
support for same-sex marriage, even after controlling for other obvious
factors that might influence one’s perspective, such as political
affiliation, religiosity, marital status, age, education, and sexual
orientation.
The same pattern emerges for the statement, “Gay and lesbian couples
do just as good a job raising children as heterosexual couples.” Only 26
percent of the lightest porn users concurred, compared to 63 percent of
the heaviest consumers. It’s a linear association for men: the more
porn they consume, the more they affirm this statement. More rigorous
statistical tests confirmed that this association too is a very robust
one.
Theoretically, the same pattern should hold when considering support
for marriage in general. And it does, though not quite as distinctively.
The less time spent viewing porn, the less critical men are of the
institution of marriage. Forty-nine (49) percent of the lightest porn
users “strongly disagreed” with a statement suggesting that “marriage is
an outdated institution” (and an additional 26 percent simply
“disagreed” with it), compared with 14 percent of the heaviest porn
users.
Of course, correlation doesn’t mean causation, and I’m not suggesting
causation here. But I’m also pretty confident the “causal arrow”
wouldn’t run in the other direction. (Why would supporting same-sex
marriage encourage you to look at porn?) Still, we should consider
alternative explanations. What might predict both porn use and
support for new family forms? Religion? Politics? While religiosity
indeed matters for perceiving marriage as outdated, it does little to
alter the stable link between porn use and same-sex marriage support.
The same is true of political affiliation. It matters. It just doesn’t
weaken the association between porn use and supporting nontraditional
family forms.
In the end, contrary to what we might wish to think, young adult
men’s support for redefining marriage may not be entirely the product of
ideals about expansive freedoms, rights, liberties, and a noble
commitment to fairness. It may be, at least in part, a byproduct of
regular exposure to diverse and graphic sex acts.
When one thinks about it the possibility of a link between pornography use and marriage is reasonable. Sex and sexuality are an integral part of marriage. Something impacting a person's views of the former can be expected to impact that person's views of the latter.
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